We are hearing all the time in the media through the #metoo movement about adults who misuse their seniority/position to sexually offend against staff who feel they have little choice and seldom report the offences.

There is increasing research to show this is not simply an adult to adult problem. Firmin et al (2018) found that sexually harmful behaviour between children in school was being normalised by young people. The young people felt it wasn't too serious and didn't want to risk losing friendships. The victims also were afraid of being blamed themselves for such events. There is a continuum of sexual behaviour both on and off line and many behaviours are now tolerated at lower levels.

Certain children are more vulnerable to sexual violence including special education needs and LGBT children. it is vital that young people take seriously the safety and consent of others if we are to change the culture and protect everyone from unwanted sexual contact. The research shows that children will only tell adults if they think it will be taken seriously including lower level sexual banter. Adults need to demonstrate their trustworthiness and act on all sexual activity which is unwanted. Schools also need to give very clear messages about consent and respect.